Divorce


Do you have a conflict in your relationship or marriage that you cannot resolve? As a mediator I help you to reach a balanced solution. A joint solution, defined by yourselves and supported by both.

How does this work?


Through listening and analyzing, I help you to clarify what you want and need. We also include the needs of your children.

As a mediator I am there for you all. I will help you to re-establish effective communication and thereby find opportunities to end the relationship in a less harmful way, or to stay together if you both would want that.

I know how much time and energy a conflict costs. Therefore, I support you to turn the conflict into a constructive and workable solution. A solution owned by the both of you and enabling you to continue with the rest of your lives.

Usually mediation is faster than trying to settle through opposing lawyers or to litigate in court; much faster and with way less damage.

Your agreements will be laid down in a Settlement Agreement or a Divorce Agreement.

What about the Children?


Do you want a divorce and do you and your partner have minor children? Under Dutch law you are obliged to draw up a Parenting Plan with a focus on the best interests for the children. Drawing up a Parenting Plan is something I can help you with. That way you can continue to work together as ‘colleague’ parents.

Together around the table...


Mediation denotes getting together and communicating, under the guidance of the mediator. Done so in a safe environment, confidentially and private. In mutual consultation you are working towards a solution. This works in practically all cases.

...or online, through a computer


Can’t you meet or will you (for example because of distance, time, money or emotions) rather not meet? Or you can’t jointly agree on a day because of your busy schedules? In that case online mediation offers an effective solution. Simply by using your PC, laptop, tablet or even your smartphone. It’s all possible.

Special circumstances


Unfortunately, sometimes undesirable or very serious conditions, such as domestic violence, child abuse, incest or child abduction. are at hand. Do you have need for more information, please click on the appropriate word to reveal how I possibly could help you.


Since 1999, I have committed my experience and knowledge to support people and businesses in conflict situations to work towards workable solutions for all parties involved. I am multi-certified as a mediator, trainer and coach, offering mediation and training services domestically as well as abroad and online where required. Call directly for free information: +31 6 54 787 464.